It’s pretty shocking just how f@#$ing similar getting laid as a Man is to gaining success as a Man. If you can’t see that, then perhaps you don’t know what the f@#% it means to be a Man.
Let’s look at leading. In all but the most rarest circumstances, a Man has to lead a girl to his bed. She’s not gonna jump on your dick. She’s not gonna ask to sleep with you. She’s not gonna put your hand on her waist. You have to do it. At the beginning, she probably won’t even talk that much, or not about the stuff you want. It’s up to you to move her, emotionally, physically, verbally and logistically, where you want her. Now this can be in the context of a marriage, where you propose on your knee and she says yes or no, or in the context of picking some random girl at a club, where you have to express your masculine personality and you have to take her to the dance floor to go dance.
You know this applies in the world of Men, in business, for example. You have to make the moves, you have to be proactive, you have to adjust yourself to the environment as it changes. The market will do what it wants, but it’s up to you to make sure your business is adaptable, prepared, and makes moves. If you follow someone else’s lead, you’re not getting anything. You’re not getting “any” either.
Let’s look at arousal. If you’re not aroused, you’re not going to be inside a woman. Soft men go nowhere. Men who aren’t passionate and excited about the future go nowhere. Men who don’t feel enough comfort and control with themselves won’t ever get hard enough to get inside. Now forget about women and think about this paragraph as if I was talking about success in this world as a Man. Arousal, excitement, passion, comfort, control, these are all characteristics of all the greatest Men who build empires, organizations and, to an extent, masterpieces. These are the characteristics of the Men who not only brought home the bacon, but who were so successful at the “hunt” that they fed themselves, their families and their heirs for generations.
Let’s look at aggression. You’re going to have a hard time finding a women who doesn’t want her Man to be aggressive, dominant, controlling in bed. The same proactive aggression a Man brings to sex, will bring a Man to success in life. Testosterone filled, you’ll be hard and strong enough to be aggressive in bed, testosterone filled, you’ll be hard and strong enough to reach out and take every opportunity you see, as a Man, in your life.
What about fear? Terrified loser teenagers have been known to have problems getting it up their first time, when they can’t believe they’ve even gotten a girl into their bed. And in the world a Man needs to be greater than his fears to succeed . A Man who is scared takes no risks, and most men who take no risks have to settle for the mediocrity in life, and usually mediocrity in terms of Manhood.
Think of the act of sex. If you’re self-conscious, thinking, you won’t be able to keep going. A Man doesn’t let his thoughts interfere, not in bed, not in life. If he let’s his worries and thoughts interfere with action, he won’t have the strength he needs to support his goals, his plans, his “penetration” of Life. Let’s talk Stamina. The more a Man focuses on the moment at hand, in life and sex, the better the sex is, the longer he lasts. The more he’s focused on the trivial end, the few moments of orgasm, the few hours of success he is going to feel when the deal is made, the worse and shorter his performance will be.
Arousal and Passion, Dominance, Aggressiveness, Leading, Stamina and the finish, where he gives, at last, the essence of who he is, an essence that has the potential to perpetuate himself for ever. A new Man. A business model. An inspiring role model. A shining example of Manhood. It’s all the same, sex, Manhood, Life, to succeed at any of them you need to
Just Be a Man.