Be aggressive. It’s under-rated.
Girly-men and politically correct douchebags call it violence, anger, crime, etc. And they’re right. But it also comes in the same box as dogged persistence, creativity and scrambling to the top of the mountain, dragging yourself with bloody and broken fingernails to achieve, to win, because you’re not pushed, you’re DRIVEN.
Aggressive is what a Man looks like. You want to throw that box out, you’re throwing out Manhood too. Remember what aggression looks like, accept it, foster it, and it’ll pay off in dividends.
Just be a Man.