Challenges are only problems for Girly-men.
Men have incredible amounts of testosterone. Winning Men have more. It’s why, after your team loses, a drop of saliva will show less testosterone. And vice versa. It’s why, if you inject someone full of testosterone, they’ll become uber-competitive. Dominant. Aggressive.
The thing is, if you’re a Man, so-called “problems” and “issues” will only light a fire under you. You’ll work harder, play stronger, and fight forever. Instead of asking “why me?” like girly-men, you’ll celebrate challenges, which fill you with Man-sized, guts-powered aggression. Real men channel adversity into balls. Girly-men wuss out and ask “why me.” Weakening to challenge is a sign of low testosterone, a mindset that makes it harder to ever produce the testosterone you need to overcome adversity.
Just be a Man.